how to stop falling in love

[g4rl1c]

I keep falling in love with women who aren't real. I fell in love with my family doctor for her doing her job, My highschool crush was the most compassionate person but was fucking someone else completely, I had a crush on a couple teachers in my life time who went out of their way to make sure I was ok cuz I was lazy student.

Why does this happen, how do I stop.

 

[Chifuyu]

Become dead inside, like me. I only fell in love once, got rejected and haven't been able to feel anything since then. I have to add, it wasn't just the rejection, it was just a part of the equation that resulted in that unfortunate outcome. I envy people like you, who can still fall in love. I'm basically broken; unfixable.

 

[Whitepill]

Just fap daily

 

[lemonpill]

Become dead inside, like me. I only fell in love once, got rejected and haven't been able to feel anything since then. I have to add, it wasn't just the rejection, it was just a part of the equation that resulted in that unfortunate outcome. I envy people like you, who can still fall in love. I'm basically broken; unfixable.

don't base the whole way you approach love after one rejection that is cuckesque

 

[g4rl1c]

Become dead inside, like me. I only fell in love once, got rejected and haven't been able to feel anything since then. I have to add, it wasn't just the rejection, it was just a part of the equation that resulted in that unfortunate outcome. I envy people like you, who can still fall in love. I'm basically broken; unfixable.

Falling in love is a curse because it is useless to actually improving your life. You are experiencing withdrawal from a drug. It is a terrible thing that I only fall in love with women who are obligated to be compassionate to me.

Women generally prefer men who are dedicated to a cause not to them. I can't do anything abt it, I can't act on it at all or too much. As a dude feeling love is a constant fight to put up an act unless you are actually a detached person.

Most dudes ik with experience talking to and fucking women have a level of resentment or lack of empathy for them. Call me a loser or a nice guy but I'm not being dishonest. Not every good feeling is good.

 

[g4rl1c]

Just fap daily

You don't know what I mean

 

[BimaxLaser]

Neurosurgery

 

[adn]

become future

 

[Deleted Member 38053]

just dont

 

[AJis18]

bro having a crush on someone 20 years older then you is like free ballen in my pov cause its risky

 

[geneticCage]

Bro, I'm in the same exact situation. I fell in love with Emma Watson once. How do I stop loving Emma Watson.

 

[TonyDr]

Just fap daily

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

become stone cold

 

[neymar]

Idk I always fall in love on a daily basis

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

It seems like you keep falling for the same thing, compassion. When someone shows us that they care it is easier to end up falling for them because it feels very personal. But sometimes people are just caring people. Like your doctor for example, its her job to care. As well as your teacher's jobs. A good teacher will care about their students. And sometimes it is for their own self benefit. They pretend to be compassionate to make themselves feel better. It is important to realize that compassion is a good trait for someone to have, it can help others when they are at their lowest. But you can't confuse see this behavior and romanticize it. People crave nurturing and care, it is only natural. It isn't your fault, but only you can work on yourself and understand that this is the bare minimum. We have turned sympathy and caring for one another as something to be deserved when it really isn't. So now it feels more special than ever.

 

[g4rl1c]

It seems like you keep falling for the same thing, compassion. When someone shows us that they care it is easier to end up falling for them because it feels very personal. But sometimes people are just caring people. Like your doctor for example, its her job to care. As well as your teacher's jobs. A good teacher will care about their students. And sometimes it is for their own self benefit. They pretend to be compassionate to make themselves feel better. It is important to realize that compassion is a good trait for someone to have, it can help others when they are at their lowest. But you can't confuse see this behavior and romanticize it. People crave nurturing and care, it is only natural. It isn't your fault, but only you can work on yourself and understand that this is the bare minimum. We have turned sympathy and caring for one another as something to be deserved when it really isn't. So now it feels more special than ever.

black pill. also can I call you bitch?

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

black pill. also can I call you bitch?

 

[g4rl1c]

can I call you obese chiwhawa, chiwhawa chewbaka, Garfield, Horchata veins (or any other food name I come up with on the spot), liar, and , George lopez?

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

can I call you obese chiwhawa, chiwhawa chewbaka, Garfield, Horchata veins (or any other food name I come up with on the spot), liar, and , George lopez?

if u start spelling chihuahua right then sure.
and why garfield I hate lasagna

 

[g4rl1c]

if u start spelling chihuahua right then sure.
and why garfield I hate lasagna

idk when ppl say fat n***a shit it's just funny to be like "okay garfield" idk

 

[gymcel88.]

I keep falling in love with women who aren't real. I fell in love with my family doctor for her doing her job, My highschool crush was the most compassionate person but was fucking someone else completely, I had a crush on a couple teachers in my life time who went out of their way to make sure I was ok cuz I was lazy student.

Why does this happen, how do I stop.

this used to be me
unfortunately i realized it eventually gets to a point now i have trouble feeling anything for even my own girlfriend
good luck

 

[xia]

maybe ur mentally ill cos same

when i used to not go outside id deadass fall for dudes who didnt shower for weeks who also bullied me
just go outside more

 

[Wilk]

Falling in love is a curse because it is useless to actually improving your life. You are experiencing withdrawal from a drug. It is a terrible thing that I only fall in love with women who are obligated to be compassionate to me.

Women generally prefer men who are dedicated to a cause not to them. I can't do anything abt it, I can't act on it at all or too much. As a dude feeling love is a constant fight to put up an act unless you are actually a detached person.

Most dudes ik with experience talking to and fucking women have a level of resentment or lack of empathy for them. Call me a loser or a nice guy but I'm not being dishonest. Not every good feeling is good.

Women prefer men who "are dedicated to a cause not them" in order for:
1- Steal his social/organizational/symbolic capital.
2- to test if she can manipulate a men who is focused in something other then her (his cause).

 

[Wilk]

Bro, I'm in the same exact situation. I fell in love with Emma Watson once. How do I stop loving Emma Watson.

That's very stupid. I think you are like r****d in introspection or emotional understanding

 

[Wilk]

It seems like you keep falling for the same thing, compassion. When someone shows us that they care it is easier to end up falling for them because it feels very personal. But sometimes people are just caring people. Like your doctor for example, its her job to care. As well as your teacher's jobs. A good teacher will care about their students. And sometimes it is for their own self benefit. They pretend to be compassionate to make themselves feel better. It is important to realize that compassion is a good trait for someone to have, it can help others when they are at their lowest. But you can't confuse see this behavior and romanticize it. People crave nurturing and care, it is only natural. It isn't your fault, but only you can work on yourself and understand that this is the bare minimum. We have turned sympathy and caring for one another as something to be deserved when it really isn't. So now it feels more special than ever.

I keep falling in love with women who aren't real. I fell in love with my family doctor for her doing her job, My highschool crush was the most compassionate person but was fucking someone else completely, I had a crush on a couple teachers in my life time who went out of their way to make sure I was ok cuz I was lazy student.

Why does this happen, how do I stop.

And sometimes they will act with a mask of compassion to seduce you too. That happens

 

[Wilk]

this used to be me
unfortunately i realized it eventually gets to a point now i have trouble feeling anything for even my own girlfriend
good luck

Dude, you have a girlfriend? Wtf is wrong with you? Didnt you learn that dating is not good for you?

 

[Wilk]

maybe ur mentally ill cos same

when i used to not go outside id deadass fall for dudes who didnt shower for weeks who also bullied me
just go outside more

Brutal violance pill

 

[Darkeningstar]

That's just having a crush

 

[osteochondromyxoma]

I keep falling in love with women who aren't real. I fell in love with my family doctor for her doing her job, My highschool crush was the most compassionate person but was fucking someone else completely, I had a crush on a couple teachers in my life time who went out of their way to make sure I was ok cuz I was lazy student.

Why does this happen, how do I stop.

There's too many girls of the same variety and personality with comparable looks. In a non-cliche way, there's more fish in the sea, so you shouldn't really have a oneitis for some mtb or whatever when theres a ton more to come from and most likely they can be even better than her.

 

[dolphinn]

I keep falling in love with women who aren't real. I fell in love with my family doctor for her doing her job, My highschool crush was the most compassionate person but was fucking someone else completely, I had a crush on a couple teachers in my life time who went out of their way to make sure I was ok cuz I was lazy student.

Why does this happen, how do I stop.

every time u catch urself falling jus think about ur ex. Can’t fall in love with someone if your in love with someone else

 

[lesh01]

porn addiction

 

[gymcel88.]

Dude, you have a girlfriend? Wtf is wrong with you? Didnt you learn that dating is not good for you?

its better to have sex with just one person than go around catching stds tho

 

[Wilk]

its better to have sex with just one person than go around catching stds tho

It is even better to not date at all