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how do people cope with jealousy in relationships

fatretardbr

fatretardbr

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just imagining that my bf or husband (manifesting) could look at other women that are way better than me when we are walking down the street together makes me ill

or that he could daydream about them, watch them in porn etc

idk how ppl have enough trust to stay in a relationship
 
dating apps, instagram, porn, egirls…. he could compare me with them all the time it’s over
 
shia.jihadist said:
what would be the point of the relationship if both of the partners are disgusting degenerates just dont be in a relationship
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but do you think you as a man can block other women out, you wouldn’t watch porn or follow any gl women on ig or simp for egirls?

i think it’s almost impossible
 
fatretardbr said:
but do you think you as a man can block other women out, you wouldn’t watch porn or follow any gl women on ig or simp for egirls?
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? obviously
it would be extremely sinful not to

probably impossible if you're dating some immoral hedonist
 
Scenehikikomori said:
It makes me feel physically ill when ik a guy i like is talking to someone but like I just ignore it and try not to think about it
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yeah i think the key is ignoring and dealing with it internally but seriously it makes me so paranoid and sick ugh
 
cheat the whole rls or avoid men thats what I do and u never feel bad after a rls
 
In the beginning of my relationship, me and my girl were both insecure about ourselves and we were both pain in the ass about this kind of stuff to each other. Wanted the other one to change but didn't want to make the change ourselves. We would argue with each other about the other one looking at X person at the store, Y person came up to you and you didn't tell them to go away, etc.

Honestly, I feel like the jealousy went away when we both stopped consuming pornography. It's not forbidden, but neither of us really watch it. There was a lot of other factors obviously, such as communication and living together made things easier. I just think when you view sex as something not intimate between two lovers, then it makes sense why you would think your partner views it the same way. Obviously this only works if you both have the same view about it, though.

I think it's possible for this to happen in a relationship, but it's probably very rare.
 
That’s why I’ve been single for a long time

Even after I broke up w my last ex seeing her talk to other guys made me crash out at her and the guys so I am far from ready lol
 
Randomized Shame said:
In the beginning of my relationship, me and my girl were both insecure about ourselves and we were both pain in the ass about this kind of stuff to each other. Wanted the other one to change but didn't want to make the change ourselves. We would argue with each other about the other one looking at X person at the store, Y person came up to you and you didn't tell them to go away, etc.

Honestly, I feel like the jealousy went away when we both stopped consuming pornography. It's not forbidden, but neither of us really watch it. There was a lot of other factors obviously, such as communication and living together made things easier. I just think when you view sex as something not intimate between two lovers, then it makes sense why you would think your partner views it the same way. Obviously this only works if you both have the same view about it, though.

I think it's possible for this to happen in a relationship, but it's probably very rare.
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you live with your gf? will you guys marry?


thats so mature i believe that people that respect each other in a relationship will naturally stop consuming pornography and other goon bait content, that should be the bare minimum
 
neymar said:
That’s why I’ve been single for a long time

Even after I broke up w my last ex seeing her talk to other guys made me crash out at her and the guys so I am far from ready lol
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why did you guys broke up?

it makes me sick to even think about going through a situation like that i probably would act in a dangerous way lmao im too mentally illl
 
fatretardbr said:
you live with your gf? will you guys marry?


thats so mature i believe that people that respect each other in a relationship will naturally stop consuming pornography and other goon bait content, that should be the bare minimum
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Yes, we live together, and yes, we will marry. I think when you find 'the one' then everything else becomes easier. I agree, I'm personally not fond of pornography consumption myself and I see how addicted a lot of young men are to it. I understand though it's a complicated problem that I wouldn't be able to find the solution for though. I think it ruins a lot of relationships and almost ruined mine. That's just my personal experience though.
 
fatretardbr said:
why did you guys broke up?

it makes me sick to even think about going through a situation like that i probably would act in a dangerous way lmao im too mentally illl
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I don’t even rmr, I prob looked for an excuse or was going through it mentally
 
Randomized Shame said:
Yes, we live together, and yes, we will marry. I think when you find 'the one' then everything else becomes easier. I agree, I'm personally not fond of pornography consumption myself and I see how addicted a lot of young men are to it. I understand though it's a complicated problem that I wouldn't be able to find the solution for though. I think it ruins a lot of relationships and almost ruined mine. That's just my personal experience though.
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you’re the highest iq member here i like you
 
fatretardbr said:
just imagining that my bf or husband (manifesting) could look at other women that are way better than me when we are walking down the street together makes me ill

or that he could daydream about them, watch them in porn etc

idk how ppl have enough trust to stay in a relationship
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Date a guy with zero options & who never had any relationships before so you can put him on a leash
 
fatretardbr said:
just imagining that my bf or husband (manifesting) could look at other women that are way better than me when we are walking down the street together makes me ill

or that he could daydream about them, watch them in porn etc

idk how ppl have enough trust to stay in a relationship
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idk never been in one
 
TonyDr said:
This or a dude who can have options ?
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Prob both. It’s over for everyone. Even as a Chad most girls would still have eyes for others if they were with me
 
neymar said:
Prob both. It’s over for everyone. Even as a Chad most girls would still have eyes for others if they were with me
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You can only keep a woman on her sexual satisfaction, and i mean being the best one
 
fatretardbr said:
just imagining that my bf or husband (manifesting) could look at other women that are way better than me when we are walking down the street together makes me ill

or that he could daydream about them, watch them in porn etc

idk how ppl have enough trust to stay in a relationship
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my tip is to be with a person whom you can trust and who will put in effort to make you trust them and make you feel safe. or simply dont date lol
 
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