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Hello, I'm Annie. I joined this website because I was tired of the bullying and despair my appearance causes me. I hope that through finding out more tips and ways to improve my appearance, I can become at least a 6/10. (Currently standing at a pretty objective 4/10 based on AI and what others have told me).
thanks for introducing yourself and welcome :)
 
Ignore the bullying and try to focus on other things while improving your looks. What is your age?
 
14, almost 15
Just try to eat healthy, no processed sugar and be active. I fucked up my body during those times and I destroyed my genetics and now I have to deal with a severe sugar addiction. It may be too late for me, but not for you.
 
Just try to eat healthy, no processed sugar and be active. I fucked up my body during those times and I destroyed my genetics and now I have to deal with a severe sugar addiction. It may be too late for me, but not for you.
I've been working on that, nothing too extreme but trying to eat fewer calories and incorporating more protein and fruits/vegetables into my diet. I'm not overweight necessarily, just a bit bloated so I'm trying to get a more toned body, I have a simple daily workout routine right now but as time goes on and I get better, I hope to up the intensity of it. I have some face fat that I'm trying to lose as well so hopefully the diet and exercise will help a bit. I'm trying to do everything in my control that's natural for right now, and if I'm still a 4/10 or 5/10 after, I'll consider plastic surgery. That's pretty much my plan.
 
I've been working on that, nothing too extreme but trying to eat fewer calories and incorporating more protein and fruits/vegetables into my diet. I'm not overweight necessarily, just a bit bloated so I'm trying to get a more toned body, I have a simple daily workout routine right now but as time goes on and I get better, I hope to up the intensity of it. I have some face fat that I'm trying to lose as well so hopefully the diet and exercise will help a bit. I'm trying to do everything in my control that's natural for right now, and if I'm still a 4/10 or 5/10 after, I'll consider plastic surgery. That's pretty much my plan.
You are just 14 so it is normal to have some fat/bloat anyways. You will get rid of it if you healthy. I am almost 19 and I have huge bloated face while being underweight
 
You are just 14 so it is normal to have some fat/bloat anyways. You will get rid of it if you healthy. I am almost 19 and I have huge bloated face while being underweight
We'll see, I just don't have good genetics. My mom used to be a Dominican Model but my dad isn't that great looking and sadly, I got more of my father's genes. By 23, I hope to be pretty since that is when I want to date and since the men I find attractive tend to be around 7/10's, I'll need to be at least a 6 to have a chance, the rest I'll have to make up for with money, status, and personality.
 
We'll see, I just don't have good genetics. My mom used to be a Dominican Model but my dad isn't that great looking and sadly, I got more of my father's genes. By 23, I hope to be pretty since that is when I want to date and since the men I find attractive tend to be around 7/10's, I'll need to be at least a 6 to have a chance, the rest I'll have to make up for with money, status, and personality.
Do not dare to looksmax for guys! Do it for yourself!
 
Do not dare to looksmax for guys! Do it for yourself!
I don't care enough about myself to do it for me, I would just stay the way I am and maybe even worse if I didn't have men as my motivation. After 35, I expect things to head downhill for me so I need to act quickly before I'll never be able to find someone.
 
I don't care enough about myself to do it for me, I would just stay the way I am and maybe even worse if I didn't have men as my motivation. After 35, I expect things to head downhill for me so I need to act quickly before I'll never be able to find someone.
Girl this breaks my heart💔
Hope this changes...you have to have yourself as motivation, not others.
 
Girl this breaks my heart💔
Hope this changes...you have to have yourself as motivation, not others.
I've been this way since elementary school, I've always been obsessed with male validation. I doubt it'll change but looksmaxxing is still looksmaxxing no matter the motivation, maybe once I'm somewhat pretty and have a boyfriend, I'll see value in me. Until then, I'll have to do everything I can to not end up alone though.
 
I've been this way since elementary school, I've always been obsessed with male validation. I doubt it'll change but looksmaxxing is still looksmaxxing no matter the motivation, maybe once I'm somewhat pretty and have a boyfriend, I'll see value in me. Until then, I'll have to do everything I can to not end up alone though.
I am pretty sure you have other qualities. Despite I am unhappy with my looks I still think I am worth the most and the best.
 
I am pretty sure you have other qualities. Despite I am unhappy with my looks I still think I am worth the most and the best.
I have other qualities but nothing that can make up for 4/10 looks. I'm not able to attract the men that I like (6-7/10's) with 4/10 looks but a "good personality". I don't think my self-esteem is fixable since it's so deeply rooted in me, but I'm trying to put my focus on looksmaxxing because if I'm not pretty, I'm going to kll myself. I tried to do it ever since 4th grade so if I don't have a distraction, it's pretty dangerous for me.
 
I have other qualities but nothing that can make up for 4/10 looks. I'm not able to attract the men that I like (6-7/10's) with 4/10 looks but a "good personality". I don't think my self-esteem is fixable since it's so deeply rooted in me, but I'm trying to put my focus on looksmaxxing because if I'm not pretty, I'm going to kll myself. I tried to do it ever since 4th grade so if I don't have a distraction, it's pretty dangerous for me.
Girl do you have some severe daddy issues? Focusing on men won t bring you anything good. Focus on school, on hobbies and so on!
 
Girl do you have some severe daddy issues? Focusing on men won t bring you anything good. Focus on school, on hobbies and so on!
Surprisingly, no. I have really good parents. I'm actually not sure how all these issues came to be since I've been like this for as long as I can remember. I suspect that since I was boy crazy and got rejected quite a lot, I became desperate for male approval. It's hard for me to focus on anything since I feel the need to check my appearance 24/7. I don't feel like I'm good enough to go to school or have hobbies and stuff.
 
Surprisingly, no. I have really good parents. I'm actually not sure how all these issues came to be since I've been like this for as long as I can remember. I suspect that since I was boy crazy and got rejected quite a lot, I became desperate for male approval. It's hard for me to focus on anything since I feel the need to check my appearance 24/7. I don't feel like I'm good enough to go to school or have hobbies and stuff.
Girl lets be honest... looks are nothing if you are smart. Have you seen Elon Musk or Greta thunberg? They are probably uglier than you, yet extremely successful and rich. Being obssesed with looks doesn't mean you shouldn't bother to study. You have to study in your current situation.
 
I watched it but not that big of a fan honestly. Season 1 was great though.
That's understandable, I still have to finish Season 2 but I do feel like the show just isn't as interesting anymore. Alice In Borderland has more interesting characters and games imo. The characters were just better in Season 1.
 
Girl lets be honest... looks are nothing if you are smart. Have you seen Elon Musk or Greta thunberg? They are probably uglier than you, yet extremely successful and rich. Being obssesed with looks doesn't mean you shouldn't bother to study. You have to study in your current situation.
I'm already a 4.0 GPA and things but I'm not smart enough to be rich from intelligence.
 
That's understandable, I still have to finish Season 2 but I do feel like the show just isn't as interesting anymore. Alice In Borderland has more interesting characters and games imo. The characters were just better in Season 1.
100 % true. No good characters in s2
 
I don't care enough about myself to do it for me, I would just stay the way I am and maybe even worse if I didn't have men as my motivation. After 35, I expect things to head downhill for me so I need to act quickly before I'll never be able to find someone.
dw everybody looks good for others,although motives could be different fully softmax and post puberty consider hardmax
 
dw everybody looks good for others,although motives could be different fully softmax and post puberty consider hardmax
I doubt everyone looks good for others, people wouldn't bully me if I looked good to them. What softmaxing tips would make the most difference? Besides basic hygiene and things.
 
I doubt everyone looks good for others, people wouldn't bully me if I looked good to them. What softmaxing tips would make the most difference? Besides basic hygiene and things.
everyone tries to look good for others no exception.Best softmaxxing is being lean.around 12% for males
 
What would you suggest for females? I'm already pretty skinny, I'm just a bit bloated so I'm trying to get toned
It’s hard to give advice when we don’t know what you look like, but eat healthy and work out. That will automatically make you look better.
 
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