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Warning: This is about how some stupid women in your everyday life try to torment you. Women think that you, the man, are always desiring her or she is always trying to arouse your desire in her (even if you dont minimally want anything with her). Some female coworkers and others have this mentality, they cant see a men as a human being that is not thinking about dating or seduction, they are obsessed with dating and seduction. This is how they judge/view you.
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The clever females will "torment" (tease and irritate) the males. When they see us suffocating, desperate to escape the psychological plots they create, they are happy. The improvement of this ability to hurt emotionally begins at the beginning of adolescence, when girls tend to replace physical aggression with words. Female fragility is undeniable in the physical sphere, but, contrary to the widespread belief in popular culture, not in the emotional sphere as a whole (CREVELD, 2004). In the field of relationships, many human females are not at all delicate or fragile, they are powerful, ruthless and play dirty.
However, we must accept such characteristics as instinctive and natural, without rebelling against them. They have great magnetic power (LÉVI, 1855/2001) to provoke negative feelings in the male. If he is emotionally weak, they easily make him fall into states of jealousy, irritation, impatience (JUNG, 1996) and, in the same way, make him feel small, as if he were a brat (ALBERONI, 1986/undated).
You must have seen those funny situations in which women in a group laugh at a lonely man to make him feel small (ALBERONI, 1986/undated). If he is not emotionally strong enough to return the magnetic flow, he will momentarily regress to childhood.
The secret to defending yourself from all feminine wiles of manipulation and mental/emotional torture is to not identify with the woman's strategies, isolating her in her own capricious and contradictory acts. To do so, it is essential not to be in love.
Then she will play her games alone and absorb all the madness she tried to introduce into our hearts. Such power is achieved when we break with identification through the strong work of eliminating sentimentality.
It is also advisable to look at her as a “¨¨¨¨¨¨” until proven otherwise, since in our modern Western civilization, with its “advanced” customs, few are saved. There are smart girls who pretend to be “saintly” for several years.
The ability to resist feminine charms and enchantments is one of the prerequisites of mythical heroes, who resist fears and attractions, not allowing desires and fears to steal their souls and cloud their conscience. For a simple matter of spiritual health and emotional survival, men must reconcile themselves with the masculine standards portrayed in myths (JUDY, 1998).
A common point in practically all torture psychological games are the indecisions and contradictions, which aim to confuse. This is the case, for example, of the one who flirts and then runs away, or of the one who starts a discussion by raising critical points and then evades them before they are clarified, of the girl who takes the initiative to call and then behaves as if she wanted to hang up the phone right away, etc. The intention is to leave important questions in the air, feelings unresolved. In short, the torture mechanisms consist of stirring up our doubt, Erotic desire and the feeling of love (understood here as infatuation and attachment) are normally the main tools used.
1st phase – The woman behaves like a saint, giving us affection and sex until we become emotionally dependent. In this phase, she pretends not to be interested in anyone else, not to pay attention or attention to any other man.
2nd phase – After being sure that we have taken the bait, and being well-attached to our feelings, the “bitch” begins to have suspicious attitudes towards other men, in order to cast doubts in our minds and cause us to suffer from jealousy.
3rd phase – When we protest with good reason, she categorically denies the intentions behind such visibly compromising attitudes, claiming innocence, indignation, sadness, etc., crying crocodile tears and then insisting on the same attitudes.
Unsatisfied excitement promotes a state of discomfort that can be prolonged to the maximum.
This is why real rejection or indifference on the part of men frightens them: it makes them powerless. Hatred is not recommended; hated is when she got a reaction from you and that makes her powerful and gives her much joy. Indifference, on the other hand, is, and this can be achieved when we eliminate all egos related to passion, attachment, lust, affection, etc.
The psychological suffering of human beings, whether male or female, is something real but non-imputable. It is non-imputable because we underestimate the psychic aspect of life, considering it "subjective". This means that the act of emotionally tormenting others is not considered a crime from a legal point of view a fact that favors them greatly, since we cannot denounce them.
Women, when observing men, seek to understand what is going on in their heads and hearts. This is how they get to know our emotional limits so they can play with us to the extreme with complete safety. That's why they are so close to gossip, because gossip gives them the information necessary for social manipulation.
Our suffering makes them happy by raising their self-esteem. This suffering can come from irritation, emotional deprivation, sexual deprivation and longing. It is a need that they have and that, when not satisfied, leaves them immensely sad, disturbed, because they feel incompetent to attract and keep a man.
The one who irritates is in control of the relationship and the one who is irritated is being controlled. The irritating person is the active agent and the one who suffers the irritation is the passive agent. Through observation, women perceive our irritations, discover our tendencies, beliefs, deficiencies, desires, needs and guide us. Over time, our friends have learned to control us emotionally, playing with our feelings in countless ways.
It is a very interesting process in which they tend to attract us with implicit promises (very rarely explicit) in their conduct, creating certain expectations in us, and then surprising us, frustrating us with the most diverse allegations, generally emotional, while they observe us.
Not knowing what they really feel for us prevents us from taking the right actions, having realistic expectations, anticipating their reactions and making fair demands. We are unable to find our way in the relationship when we see them acting contradictory. Knowing this, our delightful friends deny us certainty, exact knowledge, and cast us into doubt.
Don't let her be sure how much you understand her games, see through her lies, and see through what's going on.
You must have seen those funny situations in which women in a group laugh at a lonely man to make him feel small (ALBERONI, 1986/undated). If he is not emotionally strong enough to return the magnetic flow, he will momentarily regress to childhood.
The secret to defending yourself from all feminine wiles of manipulation and mental/emotional torture is to not identify with the woman's strategies, isolating her in her own capricious and contradictory acts. To do so, it is essential not to be in love.
Then she will play her games alone and absorb all the madness she tried to introduce into our hearts. Such power is achieved when we break with identification through the strong work of eliminating sentimentality.
It is also advisable to look at her as a “¨¨¨¨¨¨” until proven otherwise, since in our modern Western civilization, with its “advanced” customs, few are saved. There are smart girls who pretend to be “saintly” for several years.
The ability to resist feminine charms and enchantments is one of the prerequisites of mythical heroes, who resist fears and attractions, not allowing desires and fears to steal their souls and cloud their conscience. For a simple matter of spiritual health and emotional survival, men must reconcile themselves with the masculine standards portrayed in myths (JUDY, 1998).
A common point in practically all torture psychological games are the indecisions and contradictions, which aim to confuse. This is the case, for example, of the one who flirts and then runs away, or of the one who starts a discussion by raising critical points and then evades them before they are clarified, of the girl who takes the initiative to call and then behaves as if she wanted to hang up the phone right away, etc. The intention is to leave important questions in the air, feelings unresolved. In short, the torture mechanisms consist of stirring up our doubt, Erotic desire and the feeling of love (understood here as infatuation and attachment) are normally the main tools used.
1st phase – The woman behaves like a saint, giving us affection and sex until we become emotionally dependent. In this phase, she pretends not to be interested in anyone else, not to pay attention or attention to any other man.
2nd phase – After being sure that we have taken the bait, and being well-attached to our feelings, the “bitch” begins to have suspicious attitudes towards other men, in order to cast doubts in our minds and cause us to suffer from jealousy.
3rd phase – When we protest with good reason, she categorically denies the intentions behind such visibly compromising attitudes, claiming innocence, indignation, sadness, etc., crying crocodile tears and then insisting on the same attitudes.
Unsatisfied excitement promotes a state of discomfort that can be prolonged to the maximum.
This is why real rejection or indifference on the part of men frightens them: it makes them powerless. Hatred is not recommended; hated is when she got a reaction from you and that makes her powerful and gives her much joy. Indifference, on the other hand, is, and this can be achieved when we eliminate all egos related to passion, attachment, lust, affection, etc.
The psychological suffering of human beings, whether male or female, is something real but non-imputable. It is non-imputable because we underestimate the psychic aspect of life, considering it "subjective". This means that the act of emotionally tormenting others is not considered a crime from a legal point of view a fact that favors them greatly, since we cannot denounce them.
Women, when observing men, seek to understand what is going on in their heads and hearts. This is how they get to know our emotional limits so they can play with us to the extreme with complete safety. That's why they are so close to gossip, because gossip gives them the information necessary for social manipulation.
Our suffering makes them happy by raising their self-esteem. This suffering can come from irritation, emotional deprivation, sexual deprivation and longing. It is a need that they have and that, when not satisfied, leaves them immensely sad, disturbed, because they feel incompetent to attract and keep a man.
The one who irritates is in control of the relationship and the one who is irritated is being controlled. The irritating person is the active agent and the one who suffers the irritation is the passive agent. Through observation, women perceive our irritations, discover our tendencies, beliefs, deficiencies, desires, needs and guide us. Over time, our friends have learned to control us emotionally, playing with our feelings in countless ways.
It is a very interesting process in which they tend to attract us with implicit promises (very rarely explicit) in their conduct, creating certain expectations in us, and then surprising us, frustrating us with the most diverse allegations, generally emotional, while they observe us.
Not knowing what they really feel for us prevents us from taking the right actions, having realistic expectations, anticipating their reactions and making fair demands. We are unable to find our way in the relationship when we see them acting contradictory. Knowing this, our delightful friends deny us certainty, exact knowledge, and cast us into doubt.
Don't let her be sure how much you understand her games, see through her lies, and see through what's going on.
Ladies feel disgust and anger, rather than pity, toward men who stoop to the lowest level of humiliation by begging to be loved and offering themselves in obedience. The man in love despairs, clings to the object of his adoration as a lifeline, and becomes detestable. Although they deny it fervently, they prefer those who lead them. And the person in love does not offer this security.
If you are in love, you will have to go through a painful process to reach the opposite extreme. As long as you are not immune to jealousy, being able to see your partner with another guy and scorn them ironically, you will still be trapped by passion. However, being dispassionate and not being jealous does not mean being stupid. You can perfectly well dump the woman if she flirts with someone else and being dispassionate will make everything easier.
Note that the scoundrel is not jealous because he does not fall in love. His main characteristic is to see every woman as an object and treat her like a prostitute. At the same time, he is completely fake.
The person in love, on the other hand, forgives everything in the hope of being reciprocated with love and admiration, but his sacrifice is not recognized because, contrary to what he believes, he is seen as a fool.
In the game of passion, the female tends not to show concern when she feels superior. She tends to hide her feelings in order to induce the other party to express what they feel through concern, she feigns disinterest in order to force the male to reveal his degree of emotional dependence, etc. The one who loves more and more attached will inevitably reveal his weakness. Strength lies in not giving in and in being able to manage the other person's feelings.
The intellectual sieve and fatal penetration of the male intellect, despite its slowness, frightens them; They will insist on trying to dissuade you from your suspicions and skepticism, inducing you to surrender to subjectivity, to "let it happen", so that you become intoxicated with feelings. Once intoxicated, you will be drugged and can be led in any direction.
In love, our acts of kindness, far from being recognized as noble acts that should be reciprocated in kind, are seen as signs that we are idiots and as opportunities to take advantage of the good faith of others that should not be wasted. Orientals and indigenous peoples do not normally fall in love (JOHNSON, 1987) and they do very well. For them, marriage is more of an agreement and a sincere business, which should be convenient for both parties, than anything else. This way, they avoid many problems.
There is another LOVE, different from the poison of passion. But this one is difficult to achieve. We see it in all people who strive and work for humanity without demanding anything in return, such as certain philosophers, artists and religious people of both sexes, who dedicate themselves with pleasure to helping others and do not seek money. This is TRUE LOVE and not the passionate poison that we are told is sublime. Romantic love, passion, sentimentality and attachment debase man, make him weak, domesticate him and demasculinize him.
The human female is essentially a traitor in love she incessantly demands that the male surrender himself but, at the same time, considers those who do so weak and uninteresting, cheating on them with stronger men who do not love her.
Alberoni (1986/ undated) says that “To achieve his goals, the seducer cannot have sincere feelings, he always needs to pretend.” (p. 167) and adds: “Men do not understand, in general, why women feel so attracted to scoundrels, why they are so intolerant of them and so indulgent with the great seducer.” (p. 74)
Instinctively, they sense that the fearsome man will be a good protector if he is dominated through seduction. Wrote LÉVI 1855/2001). They unconsciously reason: "If I can attract the affection of this demon, I will be protected." This is why the mafiosos and powerful have so many women. The feminine unconscious is irresistibly attracted to power and evil 5 like moths are attracted to light.
The solution is not to be a real criminal monster but, to paraphrase Eliphas Lévi (1855/2001), to disguise ourselves as demons as perfectly as possible.
If you think that being good is enough to be loved, change your mind. Otherwise, hell awaits you in life. If you are truly evil, you will have many problems and a short life. Be beyond good and evil. Extract the good from evil and take it for yourself. Remove the evil from good and throw it away.
The more you pressure her to love you, give you sex and stay by your side, the more repulsive she will be. The thing is, a woman's dynamics are governed by the following principle: her loves are directed only to those who do not need them.
The closer the couple's relationship, the more terrible the mental hells will be.
Usually, in games there are two ways out, two possibilities: one is the outcome that the manipulator really wants, and the other is the one that she doesn't want but pretends to want. If we agree with the resistance and gently "push" the lady in the direction that we suspect is the simulated and undesirable one, we will destroy the game. Then we will win her over or, in the worst case scenario, we will discover that we were actually just being tricked.
If you think that being good is enough to be loved, change your mind. Otherwise, hell awaits you in life. If you are truly evil, you will have many problems and a short life. Be beyond good and evil. Extract the good from evil and take it for yourself. Remove the evil from good and throw it away.
The more you pressure her to love you, give you sex and stay by your side, the more repulsive she will be. The thing is, a woman's dynamics are governed by the following principle: her loves are directed only to those who do not need them.
The closer the couple's relationship, the more terrible the mental hells will be.
Usually, in games there are two ways out, two possibilities: one is the outcome that the manipulator really wants, and the other is the one that she doesn't want but pretends to want. If we agree with the resistance and gently "push" the lady in the direction that we suspect is the simulated and undesirable one, we will destroy the game. Then we will win her over or, in the worst case scenario, we will discover that we were actually just being tricked.
If you are a guy focused on your profession, living in the office expecting others to treat you as an equal human being, know that there will be women who will not see you as a human being and think they are playing these games with you even though you see tem as mere colleagues.
The one who is in love will be the loser in the game of passion, for fear of displeasing the object of his love. Since the games are played by women, it turns out that, unconsciously, they prefer strong and tough men, who never fall in love with anyone, but decide to pay them a little attention and dedicate a little (but not too much) of affection. Deep down, they are identical to the primates of the lower Paleolithic: they want the best male, the best monkey in the group.
Provoke and manage the following feelings: fascination, attachment, fear of loss, insecurity regarding possession, admiration, acceptance, security, protection, guidance and assistance.
What makes the relationship so problematic is their strong need to see us suffering from desire and love. They want us to fall madly in love so they can reject us.
If you think that a college or internship colleague is just being your friend (like a male one would be to you) when she talks to you about what she did to her hair and the only right answers you could give that would respect the flow of the conversation would be about her hair but then she acts unfriendly after, she is not really seeing you as a friend or colleague who shares any information about life as is normal in friendships or interactions between men, instead, she believes that she is playing a mind game with you, a game that every men is playing with her in her point of view, and if you treat her as you would treat a man, responding normally in the conversation, she will be unfriendly and negative towards you, because she will think that she has hooked you in some game. Don't expect feminist women to exist, a women who wont see you as a men instead of humen being, the only feminist women are grandmas. In this case, in the workplace, it is necessary to treat women more harshly (without friendness or emotion) than men would be treated, so you protect yourself against the toxic elements of their twisted point of view.
What matters now in this chapter are not only our beliefs, but also theirs.
Never abandon skepticism. It is your weapon against all the natural tricks of the feminine unconscious to induce you into beliefs that will weaken you, make you manipulable and, consequently, uninteresting. Skepticism regarding intentions, words, tears, etc. is an indispensable defense.
Games with opposites that create undefined situations (for the male, obviously, since they know very well what is going on) aim precisely to induce and reinforce such beliefs. Their mechanisms consist, basically, of treating us as if they were avoiding us and, at the same time, they wanted us.
The best way to punish betrayal is to ignore it and decide to break off the engagement.
OBVIOUSLY, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE KIND. DON'T BE RUDE LIKE A GORILLA... BE SUPERIOR IN CALM AND KINDNESS. But speak clearly and decisively. The woman will freak out in fury, due to being cornered, but be superior in patience. Don't be afraid of shouting, don't be softened by crying. Speak with infinite patience, as if you were explaining the theory of relativity to a feeble-minded person, but be direct and brief. Don't follow or get distracted by the nonsense that is said, ignore the deceptive speech.
The male security sought is not the security of the man's feelings for the woman, but rather of the man for himself. The secure man that women refer to so often is the man who does not fear or need anyone, who does not drag himself along or rush to please, pleasing by his mere existence. He is also the one who is secure in relation to his life goals, who does not give up on his goals and who is aware of the type of love and the profile of the woman he seeks, without making concessions. He is a special man who does not bow to the charm of any female, who resists all spells, including attempts at conflict, the generation of unfriendly climates and infernal tests.
Never speak in a submissive tone or be bossy. Speak with concentration, from the heart and without hesitation. Use a deep tone of voice, not a high-pitched one. Don't ask for opinions, ask questions, give explanations all the time, etc. Simply make the right decisions and communicate. If you are asked to explain your behavior, limit yourself to giving it in a short and objective manner, preserving your discretion.
Women have a history of crying, dramatic performances and simulated indignation when we don't believe their lies. Don't be moved by crocodile tears. You will never really know if that lame excuse for something poorly explained is true or a lie. You will never be sure if that melting does not hide an attempt to manipulate you into giving in. Therefore, never believe in anything.
Women are not the same as you. A feminist man will only come across this truth if he treats them as equals. They will show you that you are different.
The problem is that a portion of the new generation of men are egalitarian feminists. They are getting screwed because women are hostile to them. Feminism has made them treat women as if they were men, and this makes them take actions that, in the eyes of women, mean that they are idiots.
The recipe, therefore, to dew with that situation is this: ignore, ignore, ignore.
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
@Nihilus
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